701. Kimberly Lafferty

Kimberley Theresa Lafferty is a seasoned teacher-practitioner specializing in constructive adult developmental psychology and Indo-Tibetan Buddhism. She completed over 12 years of intensive Indo Tibetan study including the required retreats. She leads both open and advanced adult educational cohorts aligning developmental psychology and Buddhist theory. Kimberley co-leads, with Terri O’Fallon, the penultimate Minds I year-long developmental course of Stages International. She is an active Board member for the Association for Spiritual Integrity. Kimberley is also a householder as a wife and mother, living in a remote valley of the North Cascades of North America which deeply impacts her worldview and practice.

Website: The Confluence Experience | Making sense of what doesn’t make sense

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Summary and Transcript of this interview

Interview recorded February 10, 2024

Video and audio below. Audio also available as a Podcast.

YouTube Video Chapters:

  • 00:00:00 – Introduction and Welcome
  • 00:03:33 – Finding Peace in the Forest
  • 00:06:27 – A Blissful Awakening
  • 00:11:15 – Deep Inner Resources and Spiritual Experiences
  • 00:15:10 – Connecting with our Ultimate Selves
  • 00:18:26 – The Wave and Ocean Metaphor
  • 00:23:24 – Diving into Indo-Tibetan Buddhism
  • 00:27:59 – Tantric Retreats and Solitary Meditation
  • 00:32:26 – Experiences on the Retreats with Vajrayogini
  • 00:35:33 – The Red Lady and the Retreat
  • 00:40:01 – The Lesson of Treating Practice Seriously
  • 00:44:18 – The Precious Gift of Tibetan Buddhism
  • 00:47:58 – Spirituality and Integration
  • 00:51:02 – Understanding the Intersection of Waking Up and Identity Change
  • 00:55:31 – The Evolution of Perception and Consciousness
  • 01:00:08 – Supporting Spiritual Teachers
  • 01:03:59 – Shadow Work and Holistic Development
  • 01:07:16 – The Integration of Wisdom and Compassion
  • 01:10:57 – Waves of Human Becoming and Non-Duality in Daily Life
  • 01:14:06 – Anomalous Experiences: Exploring the Extraordinary
  • 01:18:57 – Anomalous Experiences and Meaning Making
  • 01:23:49 – Anomalous Experiences and the Search for Answers
  • 01:28:03 – The Cautionary Use of Psychedelics and the Self
  • 01:32:01 – The Need for Spiritual Integrity among Teachers
  • 01:35:58 – The Preciousness of a Spiritual Life
  • 01:39:58 – Realizing Inner Bliss
  • 01:43:44 – Experiencing Fulfillment in Tantra
  • 01:47:41 – Finding Your Path in Spiritual Practice
  • 01:52:16 – The Role of Spiritual Psychotherapists
  • 01:56:28 – Strengthening Ourselves Psychologically and Spiritually
  • 02:00:00 – Continuing the Conversation with Kimberly