368. Ted Zeff on Highly Sensitive People

Ted ZeffTed Zeff, Ph.D was the author of The Highly Sensitive Person’s Survival Guide, The The Highly Sensitive Person’s Companion, The Strong, Sensitive Boy, and The Power of Sensitivity. Elaine Aron, Ph.D., author of The Highly Sensitive Person, has written the forwards to his books about sensitive people. Dr. Zeff’s books have sold more than 75,000 copies and have been translated into 8 languages. He has more than 25 years’ experience counseling sensitive children and adults.

Dr. Zeff has also written Raise an Emotionally Healthy Boy: Save Your Son From the Violent Boy Culture, Searching for God Part I and II and Amma: Inspiring Experiences with the Divine Mother.

Dr. Zeff currently teaches workshops and consults internationally on coping strategies for highly sensitive children and adults. He has given presentations in Denmark, Holland, Norway, Israel, and throughout the United States. He has been interviewed about the trait of high sensitivity in the media, such as NBC TV, PBS radio, Psychology Today and the Huffington Post (which received 1.2 million likes).

Ted Zeff Dayalu has also given talks about the books he has written about Amma throughout the United Sates, Israel, Denmark and Holland.

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Movie referred to in this interview: sensitivethemovie.com

Transcript of this interview

Interview with Ted Zeff about Amma

Interview recorded 10/29/2016

Video and audio below. Audio also available as a Podcast.

YouTube Video Chapters:

  • 00:00:00 – Introduction to Buddha at the Gas Pump
  • 00:02:45 – Dealing with High Sensitivity
  • 00:05:02 – The Highly Sensitive Person
  • 00:07:13 – Highly Sensitive Traits
  • 00:09:25 – Highly Sensitive People and Their Strengths
  • 00:12:08 – The Advantages and Challenges of Sensitivity in Different Cultures
  • 00:14:39 – Cultural Differences in Sensitivity and Discrimination
  • 00:16:58 – The Importance of High Sensitivity in Society
  • 00:19:03 – The Traits of High Sensitivity
  • 00:21:33 – Building Resilience without Losing Sensitivity
  • 00:23:49 – Embracing Sensitivity
  • 00:26:00 – The Meissner effect and sensitivity levels
  • 00:28:30 – Raised in an Overstimulating Environment
  • 00:31:00 – The Value of Compromise and Negotiation
  • 00:33:19 – Coping with Strong Emotions from Others
  • 00:35:33 – The Importance of Downtime for Highly Sensitive People
  • 00:37:52 – The Importance of Retreats in Nature for Sensitivity
  • 00:40:17 – Coping with High Sensitivity and Insomnia
  • 00:42:40 – High Sensitivity and Spirituality
  • 00:44:52 – Ayurvedic Approaches for Highly Sensitive People
  • 00:46:59 – The Impact of Sensitivity on Health
  • 00:49:15 – Exercise and Sports for Sensitive People
  • 00:51:27 – Highly Sensitive Children
  • 00:53:35 – The Power of Sensitivity in Childhood
  • 00:55:45 – The Importance of Recognizing and Supporting Individuals’ True Nature
  • 00:58:06 – Misdiagnosis and Medication for Highly Sensitive Individuals
  • 01:00:25 – Self-Employment for Sensitive People
  • 01:02:57 – Teaching Self-Defense to Sensitive Children
  • 01:05:19 – Sensitivity and Spiritual Evolution
  • 01:07:26 – Sensitivity as the New Hero
  • 01:09:31 – Discussing High Sensitivity with Ted Zeff, PhD

354. Richard Miller

Richard MillerRichard C. Miller, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist, author, researcher, yogic scholar, and spiritual teacher who, for the past 46 years has devoted his life to integrating western psychology and neuroscience with the ancient nondual wisdom teachings of Yoga, Tantra, Advaita, Taoism, and Buddhism. Richard is the founding president of the Integrative Restoration Institute, co-founder of the International Association of Yoga Therapists, founding editor of the peer-reviewed International Journal of Yoga Therapy, and a founding member and past president of the Institute for Spirituality and Psychology.

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Richard also serves as a research consultant studying the meditation protocol he’s developed (Integrative Restoration ~ iRest Meditation), a modern adaptation of an ancient yogic form of meditation, researching its efficacy on health, healing, and well-being with diverse populations that include active-duty soldiers, veterans, women rescued from human trafficking, youth and college students, seniors, the homeless, and the incarcerated, with issues such as sleep disorders, PTSD, traumatic brain injury, chronic pain, chemical dependency, and anxiety, as well as research on iRest’s efficacy for enhancing resiliency, well-being, and compassion. Richard leads international training and meditation retreats on the integration of enlightened living into daily life.

For information visit irest.org.

Transcript of this interview

Interview recorded 7/16/2016

Video and audio below. Audio also available as a Podcast.

YouTube Video Chapters:

  • 00:00:00 – Introduction to Buddha at the Gas Pump
  • 00:05:40 – The Illusion of Destroying the Ego
  • 00:11:22 – The Terrifying Search for Self
  • 00:16:59 – The Liberation of Thoughts
  • 00:22:30 – The Four Phases of Waking Up
  • 00:28:30 – The Constant Evolution of the Human Experience
  • 00:34:17 – Rediscovering Your Inner Compass
  • 00:40:05 – From Line on Stone to Line on Air
  • 00:46:20 – Discovering Wholeness Through Yoga Nidra
  • 00:52:09 – Nourishing the Feeling of Being
  • 00:57:43 – Penetrating the Five Koshas
  • 01:03:37 – Relief from Fear and Obstacles
  • 01:07:54 – The Wonderment of Doubt
  • 01:12:11 – The Availability of Insight and Creativity in Meditation
  • 01:16:23 – Psychology of the Battlefield
  • 01:20:38 – Awakening of self-awareness and the sense of being
  • 01:25:10 – Falling in Love with Everything You Meet
  • 01:29:26 – Awakening and the Potential for Transformation
  • 01:33:59 – Redeeming the Potential for Growth
  • 01:38:14 – Setting Boundaries and Containment
  • 01:42:53 – Letting Go of Mental Thoughts
  • 01:47:14 – Working with Opposites and Taking Perspective
  • 01:52:01 – Acting in Harmony with the Universe
  • 01:56:34 – Developing Inner Peace and Equanimity
  • 02:01:28 – The Paradox of Boundaried and Unboundaried Presence
  • 02:05:55 – Embracing Our Humanness
  • 02:10:24 – The Mystery of Existence, Relaxing and Letting Be
  • 02:15:14 – Backsliding and the Pain of Old Conditioning
  • 02:19:42 – Immersing in Being and Setting Intentions
  • 02:24:27 – Going beyond structures and teachings in meditation practice

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327. John Astin

John AstinJohn Astin is the author of three collections of poetic and prose reflections on the non-dual nature of reality, Too Intimate for Words, (2005) This Is Always Enough(2007), and Searching for Rain in a Monsoon (2012). He is presently at work on a new book, It’s Not What You Think It Is: Reflections on the Inconceivable Nature of Reality. Along with his writing and teaching, John is also a singer, songwriter and recording artist who since 1987 has produced seven CDs of original spiritual/contemplative music including his most recent release, What We’ve Always Been.

In addition to his writing and music, John also holds a PhD in health psychology and is an internationally acclaimed scholar in the field of mind-body medicine, his research focusing on the applications of meditative/contemplative practices in psychology and health care.

For information about John’s work, visit www.johnastin.com.

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Transcript of this interview

Interview recorded 1/9/2016

Video and audio below. Audio also available as a Podcast.

YouTube Video Chapters:

  • 00:00:00 – Introduction to Buddha at the Gas Pump
  • 00:04:18 – The Beginning of a Journey of Self-Exploration
  • 00:09:43 – Struggling and Seeking for Enlightenment
  • 00:16:13 – The Paradox of Awakening
  • 00:23:10 – The Mystery of God and the Absolute
  • 00:30:30 – The Continuous Awareness That Doesn’t Change
  • 00:35:18 – The Unfathomable Nature of Reality
  • 00:39:26 – The Indescribability of Experience
  • 00:42:59 – The Equalness of Experience
  • 00:46:58 – Applying Curiosity to Our Own Experience
  • 00:50:53 – Investigating the Experience of Anxiety
  • 00:54:49 – The Abstraction of Anxiety
  • 00:58:16 – The Practical Utility of Spiritual Development
  • 01:02:32 – Exploring the Nature of Experience
  • 01:05:58 – Awe-Inspiring Complexity and Intelligence
  • 01:10:00 – The Universe Inside the Touch
  • 01:13:53 – The Sensitivity of Non-Conceptual Dimensions of Experience
  • 01:17:42 – The Authority of Spiritual Teachers
  • 01:22:04 – Letting Experience be the Authority
  • 01:26:20 – The Nature of Devotion and the Role of the Teacher
  • 01:30:46 – The Value of Transmission and Devotion
  • 01:34:21 – Treating Others with Respect and Devotion
  • 01:40:07 – Reflections on the Spiritual Path
  • 01:48:31 – The Wholesome Way and Discovering What Truly Interests Us
  • 01:51:47 – The Importance of Personal Experience in Spiritual Practice
  • 01:55:12 – Picking up on the Little Things
  • 01:58:24 – Finding Ease within the Flow of Experience
  • 02:02:50 – Embracing uncertainty and holding perspectives loosely
  • 02:06:30 – A Chuckle at Materialists
  • 02:11:34 – Beyond ideas of right and wrong
  • 02:17:22 – Conclusion and Thank You