124. Scott Kiloby, 2nd Interview

Scott KilobyScott Kiloby is an author and international speaker on mindfulness and addiction recovery. Scott is also the founder and director of the Kiloby Center for Recovery. After twenty years of addiction to drugs and alcohol, Scott began to develop Natural Rest for Addiction which has helped people all over the world confront the root of their addiction, anxiety, and depression.

Scott was the COO of MyLife Recovery which held the patent on the naltrexone implant. Scott also developed an app that acts as an interface between pain management doctors and their patients to decrease the likelihood of addiction. The app also protects doctors legally from claims of negligence arising out of opiate overdoses.

Originally from southern Indiana, Scott was an attorney for several years before becoming an author. He travels extensively across the United States and in Europe giving talks, seminars, and intensives.

Along with his work at the Kiloby Center, Scott is also the director and co-owner of the Natural Rest House, a detox and residential addiction treatment center located in La Quinta, California.

In addition to Natural Rest for Addiction: A Radical Approach to Recovery Through Mindfulness and Awareness, Scott is the author of the following books which can be found on Amazon:

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Interview recorded 5/26/2012.

1st interview with Scott

Video and audio below. Audio also available as a Podcast.

YouTube Video Chapters:

  • 00:00:00 – Introduction to Buddha at the Gas Pump
  • 00:04:09 – The Significance of Non-Dual Realization
  • 00:07:04 – Seeking Validation in Relationships
  • 00:09:26 – Inquiry into Self-Worth and Inadequacy
  • 00:11:54 – The Velcro Effect: Letting Go of Negative Thoughts
  • 00:13:45 – Overcoming the “I’m unlovable” story in relationships
  • 00:15:53 – The Transformative Power of Relationship
  • 00:18:04 – The Rewiring of Physiology for Realization
  • 00:20:32 – The Dangers of Non-Seeking
  • 00:23:17 – The Present Exploration
  • 00:26:31 – The Unfindable Self
  • 00:29:24 – The Unfindability of Personal Perspectives
  • 00:32:26 – The Unfindable Self
  • 00:34:40 – The Deficient Self
  • 00:37:13 – The Inquiry and Self-Perception
  • 00:39:44 – The Pursuit of Perfection
  • 00:42:25 – The Suffering of Ambition
  • 00:44:25 – Harnessing Authentic Ambitions
  • 00:46:38 – Energetically Different Approach to Music Creation
  • 00:49:03 – Performing One’s Own Dharma
  • 00:51:29 – The Mirror of Bullying
  • 00:54:06 – Overcompensating and Awakening
  • 00:56:46 – Awakening and Ego Aggrandizement
  • 00:58:51 – The Recognition of Something Unchanging
  • 01:01:11 – Being True to Yourself in Non-Dual Awakening
  • 01:03:35 – Peacemaking and the Avoidance of Conflict
  • 01:05:45 – The Readiness to Look
  • 01:08:00 – The Connection Between Self and the World
  • 01:10:25 – Finding Facilitators on livingrealization.org
  • 01:12:13 – Wrapping Up and Next Week’s Interview with Nirmala
  • 01:13:53 – The Conversation Continues